The rank also is a reference, but this thing other people can feel, is your thing calculable? 排名也是一个参考，但是这个东西人家会觉得，你的东西是不是可信赖的？
Accordingly, the woman does not want a husband to become the child, and should regard the husband as capable calculable friend. 因此，女人不要把丈夫当孩子，而应把丈夫当作一个有能力的可信赖的朋友。
