Doparentsowetheirchildrenanything?Yestheyowethemagreatdeal.
Oneoftheirchiefdutiesistogivetheirchildrenasenseofpersonalworth(价值观).Theself-respectisthebasisofgoodmental(心理)health.Ateenagerwhoisoftenmadetofeelstupidandunworthycomparedtobrighterbrotherssistersorcousinswillnotbesosureandwillbesoafraidoffailingthatheorshewon'ttryatall.Ofcoursetheyshouldbecorrectedwhentheydowrong.Thisisthewaychildrenlearn.Butthecriticisms(批评)shouldbebalancedwithpraiseswithasmileandakiss.Nochildisevertoooldtobecuddled(拥抱)
Parentsowetheirchildrenfirmguidance(指导).Itisfrighteningforateenagertofeelthatheisinchargeofhimself(自理); it'slikebeinginacarthatcan’tbestopped.
Parentsowetheirchildrenprivacy(隐私)andrespectfortheirpersonalbelongings.Thismeansnottakingthingswithoutpermissionnotreadingdiariesandmailnotlookingthroughpursespocketsanddrawers.
Ifamotherfeelsthatshemustreadherdaughter'sdiarytoknowwhatisgoingonthecommunicationbetweenthemmustbequitebad.
Parentsowetheirchildrenasetofsolidvalues(道德准则)aroundwhichtobuildtheirlives.Thismeansteachingthemtorespecttherightsandopinionsofothers;itmeansbeingrespectfultoelderstoteachersandtothelaw.Thebestwaytoteachsuchvaluesisbyexample.Achildwhoisliedtowilllie.Achildwhoseeshisparentsstealtoolsfromthefactoryortowelsfromahotelwillthinkthatitisallrighttosteal.Ateenagerwhoseesnolaughterandnoloveinthehomewillhavedifficultylaughingandloving.
Nochildaskstobeborn.Ifyoubringalifeintotheworldyouowethechildsomething.
1.Accordingtothepassageifachildismadetofeelstupidandunworthyconstantlyhemay_______.
A.beafraidtotrytodoanything B.begladandbecomemorebravewhengrowingup
C.berespectfultoothers D.beinchargeofhimself
2.WhichofthefollowingisRIGHT?
A.Parentscanreadtheirchildren’sdiarywithouttheirpermission.
B.Childrencan’tbecriticizedatallbytheirparents
C.Childrenneednotonlybodyhealthbutalsomentalhealth.
D.Itisrightthattheirparentsdonotrespe